Cai Li Xu for Students praised the arrogant humble teacher education Category: Fu Hui Mind and Body
of you friends, Good morning! Yesterday we enter the second unit Goes speakers, home and everything to Hing, a brother of one mind, loess turned into gold. Indeed there and happy family atmosphere, family traditions will be energetic, business will thrive. Many children listened to stories of those ancient sages, they are to emulate, after listening to One sister, she is very generous to his younger brother took to eat pears, just only one pear, the results of this brother has been shoveling bite. When the bite is more than half of the pear, when the sister is about to help, and later took his pears take it over. Mother saw this phenomenon, she hit a phone call to the teacher, this is a good parent teacher cooperation. Because each verse, the child can not step, need long-term guidance.
tell them the next day the teacher told a story about two brothers,UGGs, the Han Dynasty,cheap UGG boots, a Jiao Zhao Xiao, a Jiao Zhao Li, Zhao Xiao is the elder brother. Unfortunately, the thieves were arrested and Zhao Li, his brother, after that, start looking for this cottage directly to the thieves rushed home to go to, just to see these thieves are hungry, had intended to kill his brother to eat. His brother looked very anxious to go in front of these thieves, telling them: My brother is sick, the body and thin, you do not eat him, eat me, I am more fat, the body and better. Results brother, his brother looked so very anxious about to open up my brother and said: I was caught you are my life, so I was eating you should be, must not be dragged my brother. Two brothers racing in there to die, to die for each other. At this time, the thieves looked very moved and left him and his brother were put.
so of you children, Zhao Xiao-Li Zhao connected with what people are willing to pay for the brothers? Of life are willing. Then we can not because of an apple, a pear related to brothers quarrel? We should follow the example of those ancient sages of the human spirit to do it. And Zhao Xiao, Li Zhao, as brothers sacrifice to the spirit of life, reached the other side of the emperor, and later the emperor let them brothers to govern the people when the officer, after the blessing they have. Why did the emperor use them to an officer? You see, fraternity brothers, they will obey their parents, there is such a good virtue, out of an official must be protect the people. As sisters.
Therefore, we are also opportunities for education through this point, to give them some guidance; of course, when children have a good performance, we have to give some recognition. Another child, just broken his classmates slippers, because he has broken a little pair of slippers, he changed another new pair of slippers. But that little broken slippers, he could not bear to lose, put it on his bed; maybe he learned , on the bed. The results of the students that he has bad shoes, can not wear, his teacher told him: You go to your old pair of slippers that students bring to wear. This is not to help students? Is, otherwise the students did not have shoes to wear, cool winter. Then we suddenly find these teachers, a pair of old slippers that students in the feet, and that is actually a new pair of slippers the feet of his classmates. Those of us adults can be a lesson. You see he really His students will be able to feel that he was to take care of him.
so we present to encourage this child, you really are a good student Confucius. Then we expect him further, said these students you are big brother, so you later have to be a good example. We certainly children, but also determined to make him forget, do not forget to let him improve his position. So praise the child is also a science. We often hear the saying that goes This is a result of the reason for the what? We can not stay in the results, that people live unclear. Of you friends, do you think? This is a very important reason, we can think carefully about the issue.
a father to say: my son was two years old, that he can be a national leader; my son in junior high school, I think as long as he can be admitted to the university that's pretty good; my son in high school time, that he will have work out just fine. How much difference! But the father of the child's expectations of getting low, the child will not amount to anything? Not! When the elderly do not have good role models to him, he would no ambition, and slowly all day long period to laissez-faire, it is boring. So, why do we start learning emphasized in the This should be cautious in the beginning! Ability of children to learn where the real purpose? Why to learn skill? We started that the school aim at saints, and now aim at the person reading to make money, the target is wrong, there may be a good result? So, at the beginning of the guide must have the correct concept of Caixing.
why Why You see an adult gave me clapping, adults said I have to tell you study, you are so good! Hear a lot of good things, it is recommended to not listen to the words. Therefore, people have praised the use of reason, but also with wisdom Caixing. The experience I have from my own body, but also from others to see, and then turned the classic confirmed.
We look at these four, and now people have not committed? As long as arrogant hearts, there is no way to educated, he may be hard to grow. If the child is brought up to arrogant, difficult to have a big as this life, so why so he will know The second Therefore, the When a child does not know how to grasp the sense of proportion since childhood, and often do not know who is a play, or the body is likely to be some possibility to increase the risk. Of you friends, our ancestors thousands of years ago put these teachings written in the Scripture, is worthy of our ancestors, our ancestors can not I'm sorry!
when the time because I grew up, I am Sun, so get the applause is particularly high. One thing to do What is the purpose? Applause! How do you know? Have you seen someone else I was doing, so a living being in the applause. Suddenly I had an office in the university lecture, college senior, he heard one of my elders I finished classes down, he said to me very happy: You're living in the applause of the people! He was definitely me, but I heard that phrase suddenly supernatural power, and if there is no applause, I do not? Do! But the strange thing is, a lot of very important things in life are not applause. When a person if often only live in the applause which his heart is bound to heavy losses and gains, this would never comfortable happy life.
so I started amendment. Listen to good words because in the past too much, really, good things to listen too much, a criticism of words, the heart felt quite uncomfortable. So that one should always read the Indeed we have only two eyes, two ears, to see how many? Can hear how much? And when we have a humble heart, you do not know how many more pairs of eyes to help you look at the road, more than how many pairs of ears to help you listen to a lot of messages, many of your shortcomings. Therefore, children have to grow is the humility, not complacency. We praise the child, to go against him boast of good character, rather than his talent to boast, boast a certain problem can boast a long time. What many parents Doukua? How long you are so beautiful! What do you want to boast that he pretty? Boast that he was going to help him beautiful? You tell him: you good temperament! Is not every day read, Is not always very polite to the elderly? So to Review Review of the way Scripture.
too many children, childhood is, for example, little girl, she saw a lot of adults: features can grow like this, the nose is the nose, mouth is the mouth! This little girl was two years you do boast, boast three years, will cause any results? She must have something carry around every day, the mirror. How do you know? In a kindergarten to a pair of siblings, sister, younger brother are very, very beautiful, but quite attractive girls beautiful older in general, everyone can see she has to admire her beautiful. So the little girl up to half of the class, but also look in the mirror to take a photo of her brother sent her to learn very large. Because she is only concerned about looks, often thought not to focus, often there will be very concerned with others watching her. Such children can easily go back to the vanity of life, and vanity of life to go. So do not praise the child's appearance, do not often praise the child's talent, should be praised his virtues.
and talent even if you praise, but also led him back to the purpose of talented why. Talented, his zither playing very well, where the purpose? In performance for others to see, and then let him think I'm bad? It was not right! If this is the boot,UGG boots clearance, the child would definitely be a bottleneck Zheng. If our guide is to tell him music. When he has this, his whole attitude would be different. When you praise his character, for example, So praise should follow the moral praise. In which moral standards? An in-depth, the door is to master the program. So of you friends, your
just had a mother with a young girl to go shopping. Met a friend who just like the little girl said: how do you not go to school? The little girl is still small,Discount UGG boots, the little girl asked her mother: Mom, studying what to do? The results of the elders told her right away: you can study money. Well, slow to start, if you are the mother, how do? Now accounts for a large proportion of the values! The mother immediately seize this opportunity to point, just like her friends look to play a bit with a little hello and told her not to go on. She told her daughter: to study the most important skill to learn, because we have a capable future, they can help others, to contribute in society, we must remember that the When children feel that the community is to help each other, she was a formation of this attitude, her face all walks of life what happens? Will respect, be grateful. But if the purpose of skill she learned in the lucrative businesses back to see what she see? The amount of money! She would go to people who mocked many industries. Therefore, learning in deliberately, as long as the bias of the heart, just like morality, learning the opposite. So soon lead her to her mother, saying that the ability to learn.
very abstract learning ability, children were so small, that mother immediately (because they just came out from the supermarket, bought some bread) She said: just like the uncle, because he has skill, he will do bread, he can help us make bread, let us something to eat, so we would like to thank him. But we thank him, can put your teddy bear to his uncle? Give your car or uncle? Uncle does not necessarily need. So we thank the uncle to thank him for some money, and that his uncle also took the money to buy what he needs. To take this opportunity to lead by a child, learning of the growing ability to serve others; when she had this attitude, she is not easy to arrogance.
I have also seen a friend twenties, started for the first time I saw him, he looks even higher than me, off than I am handsome, and then have read the books of sages We looked very excited. Because he was earlier than I read, I am happy for him, I commended him about it, really rare, has been praised. Can you first meet a lot of praise? Can not! So be careful speech, I did not do a good job, I unable to bear my joy, to give him some words of praise. Live more than a week later, I observed the details of a life is not very appropriate, I have a lot less because he has years old, so we also hold an I'm his big brother, is voice Results When my words came out, his face immediately changed, and I am also a very sensitive man, was supposed to advise, to persuade half of the brakes immediately. Because if he did not go to a deadlock when the atmosphere is not good for the next to speak. Among the things I also realize that people should follow the moral praise praise, or were indeed lost in the sound of his praise.
We praise the child, he is willing to get his new shoes to wear to his students, and we further expect him later in the moral, the moral aspects of that when everyone's role model. So, why the former are particularly good brother, are particularly play, and why? Expectations of his parents from an early age: parents working too hard, very hard, lots of home you want to take a good brother and sister. You see he has expectations, responsibility, natural ability will grow faster. So these verses, we teach the children the process, there will be many opportunities, we can further take advantage of a good guide.
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